Perfection is impossible. You don’t have to be perfect. Just do your best.
No, really. Just do your best. For too long, the desire to do everything perfectly ran my life. Perhaps it’s had the same effect on yours.
It’s so freeing to realize you don’t have to be perfect. We’re never gonna be anyway, so here’s to just doing our best and being at least reasonably at peace with the result.
Keep giving life your best, but don’t forget to give yourself a little grace along the way.
Have a great day!
My friend, Doug is a talented banjo player (and a nice guy) and he recently produced a great resource for banjo players.
It’s a digital download and the download includes the following:
- 12 Licks in Key of G (tablature)
- 12 Licks in Key of D (tablature)
- 12 Licks in Key of C (tablature)
- 12 Songs
The download also includes more than 50 mp3 tracks, with tablatures done with banjo midi, and includes some of songs in full-band versions.
I wanted to share this with you, because Doug put a lot of work and a lot of heart into this project. I had the opportunity to chat with him about it the other day and if you’re a banjo player, this is a resource you will want to have.
Oh, and here’s Doug playing banjo if you want to listen to some of his music. Hope you enjoy the banjo tab book and happy picking!
Every time you decide to confront a challenge or problem in your life, you begin the process of taking away the power it has over you.
So, go for it.
Believe you can do it.
Freedom is waiting on the other side.
No, not the mask you might be thinking of…this is not that kind of blog. I’m talking about the “mask” you’re wearing to show the world you’re doing great when, in reality, something much different may be true.
We all do this, by the way. There is no shame in it. I’m simply asking because, well, I wear one on a regular basis and I know what it’s like to hide behind something to avoid revealing your true self.
For me, it’s making jokes. I’ve used humor to mask all kinds of hurts and pains in my life and still do to this day. After all, it feels better to laugh than to cry, right? Perhaps you can relate.
Maybe for you it’s a different kind of mask. Being busy all the time? Substance abuse? Social media posts showing your life looking perfect, even though it’s in shambles?
Just being real…and that’s the point. Too many times in my life, I haven’t been real because I didn’t want to reveal the extent of sadness or something similar in my life. Sound familiar? If so, know that you are not alone.
In the end, wearing a mask can temporarily keep you from having to feel pain or hurt. Fake it until you make it, right? Well, no. Wrong, because it doesn’t really get us anywhere to keep doing this.
So, what’s the point, here? Honestly, I don’t know because I just started writing some thoughts that were on my mind. But, if there is a point, I think it would be to make it a habit of being real – with yourself and with others.
Sure, being real can lead to you feeling some deep emotions and it could hurt a bit. It can be scary to be real. But, the alternative is to keep kicking the can down the road on some potentially significant things in our lives that probably would be better if they were addressed and dealt with sooner than later.
Thanks for letting me be real with you, here. Have a great day.